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The Terminally Ill Woman Who Changed Her Will in a Hospital Waiting Room

Shirley Guymer rewrote her £800,000 will just two months before dying of cancer—sparking claims of undue influence and a 'fight to the death' in court.

Charis Bradburn22 January 2025
The Terminally Ill Woman Who Changed Her Will in a Hospital Waiting Room

In 2016, Shirley Guymer died at the age of 78 after a battle with terminal cancer. What should have been a time for family to grieve together instead became a bitter court battle—dubbed by the presiding judge as a "fight to the death"—over an £800,000 estate and a will signed in the most unusual of places: a hospital waiting room.

A Lifetime of Family

Shirley Guymer lived in Hampshire and had no children of her own. As a widow, her family consisted of her five siblings and their children—11 nieces and nephews in total. For years, it seemed clear who would inherit her estate:

  • The 2014 will: Prepared shortly after her husband's death
  • 95% to family: Split equally among all 11 nieces and nephews
  • 5% to charity: The Rowans Hospice, who cared for her
  • Fair and equal: No favoritism among siblings' children

The Last-Minute Change

But just two months before her death, everything changed:

  • New will drafted: Completely replacing the 2014 document
  • Dramatic shift: Entire estate left to brother Terry Crook and his two sons
  • Eight nieces and nephews cut out: From equal beneficiaries to nothing
  • Rowans Hospice removed: The charity that cared for her received nothing
  • Signed in hospital: The will was executed in a waiting room

The Allegations of Undue Influence

Shirley's sisters brought the case to court, alleging their brother Terry had manipulated their dying sister:

  • "Controlled and belittled": Evidence from another sister described Terry's behaviour
  • Shirley was afraid: Testimony suggested she feared her brother
  • Vulnerability: Terminal illness made her susceptible to pressure
  • Isolation: Limited access to independent advice
  • Unusual circumstances: A hospital waiting room is no place to sign a will

The Settlement

Before the judge could rule, the parties reached a resolution:

  • Latest will scrapped: Terry, Malcolm, and Andrew agreed to abandon it
  • 2014 will restored: The fair, equal distribution reinstated
  • 95% to nieces and nephews: All 11 beneficiaries received their share
  • 5% to Rowans Hospice: Shirley's charitable wishes honored

What This Case Teaches

The Guymer case is a textbook example of what can go wrong:

  • Timing matters: Wills changed close to death invite scrutiny
  • Location matters: A hospital waiting room raises red flags
  • Vulnerability is real: Terminally ill people can be manipulated
  • Family dynamics surface: Old resentments emerge during crisis
  • Legal costs devastate: Six days in court consumed estate resources

The Final Lesson

Shirley Guymer's story is a stark reminder: the way you plan your estate affects not just who gets what, but how your family remembers you. A will signed in desperation, in a hospital waiting room, under disputed circumstances, led to years of family warfare and tens of thousands in legal fees.

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This article is based on public reports of the Stoner & Reeve v Crook case from 2020. It serves as an educational example of how undue influence claims arise and how wills can be contested.

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